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By Goldie
DeWitt
Copyright 2008,
1down.com
Introduction:
This guide is being published for the sole purpose of giving
information to women who are interested in working as Exotic
Dancers or in the Adult Entertainment Industry. So many women
don't have a clue where to begin, who to call, how much they
should be getting paid, where to get the right wardrobe, where
the clubs are located, and a few other things. Hopefully I can
answer these questions for you. Also, this guide is free of
charge because I believe in creating positive karma.
Got a question, ask here.
Why
do Women want to become Exotic Dancers?
#1) The Cash -
There's no mystery here. A good exotic dancer can earn
$500-$1000 per week part-time and even more money full-time. Who
wouldn't want to make this kind money.
#2) The Fame & Exposure - Some people just want to be
famous. They want to walk down the street and be well known.
Many dancers have gone on to other careers in the entertainment
industry. Plus, we've all seen exotic dancers on nationally
syndicated talk shows such as Geraldo, Ricki Lake, Montel
Williams, Jenny Jones, etc. Most of these shows pay for your
round trip air fare, hotel expenses, & limo service to and from
the show!
#3) Travel - Once you get the right wardrobe together you
can travel all over the United States. Opportunities are even
available in Europe and the Caribbean. In every major city in
the U.S. there are nude clubs or topless bars. You don't need a
booking agent or agency if you have some professional
photographs of yourself. You can call clubs and book yourself.
#4) The Attention - Who doesn't love getting attention
from the opposite sex. Dancers who start off being shy and
insecure often end up feeling confident and sure of themselves
after a few months of dancing. Customers will tell you how
beautiful you are, how gorgeous your body is, and how they would
love to marry you and take care of you. So you can't help but
feel good about yourself at the end of the day!
#5) The Freedom - That's the freedom to work when you
want, where you want, and how many hours you want. That's why so
many women who dance are part-time or full-time college
students.
What type of places can
you dance at?
There are several different types of clubs, bars or
establishments in which you can dance. Of course you must be at
least 18 years old to perform exotic dancing in most states.
#1) Nude Clubs - These clubs will allow you to dance
totally nude. Legally, they are NOT allowed to sell alcohol.
From my experience most of these clubs are "upscale clubs."
Meaning they cater to the White business man who will often
entertain a group of his business associates, and may spend
hundreds or thousands of dollars in one night. In these clubs
customers CANNOT touch dancers under any circumstances. These
clubs are often very large with a beautiful dance stage as well
as areas for private dances.
#2) Topless Bars - These are usually neighborhood bars
where local people who live in the neighborhood go to see
dancers. These bars usually have 1 or 2 stages where you can
dance. In most states, topless bars are allowed to sell alcohol,
therefore total nudity is not allowed. I guess the combination
of alcohol and completely naked women is too much for men to
handle. Depending upon the neighborhood, these bars usually
cater to one ethnic group or another.
#3) Promoter Parties - A local promoter will rent out a
club or bar and have numerous dancers come in to perform for the
customers. Now these parties vary in what you can do as a
dancer. Some offer the basic stage dancing & lap dancing, and
are done in a very professional manner.
#4) Peep Shows - Most peep shows are located in adult
video stores, however, some clubs may also have them. Here's how
it works. You are standing on a circular stage. The stage is
surrounded by 10-12 booths. A customer walks into the booth an
inserts a $1 or $5 token. A window comes down so the customer
can see you on stage. There may be 1 or 2 other girls with you
on stage. For a tip of $1 to $10, you ask the customer what he
wants you to do. Which can go from dancing, showing your private
area, or letting him touch your body. The window is very small,
about 1 foot by 1 foot, and only stays open for several minutes.
Once it goes down, he must put in another token and tip you
again if he wants you to do something for him.
#5) Fantasy Booths - These are similar to Peep Shows but
there are several differences. a) There are two booths. One for
you and one for the customer. b) There is a see through plastic
partition between you and the customer so he cannot touch you.
Here's how it works. You stand outside the booth and the
customer walks up to you. You ask him if he wants a show. If he
say's yes he must pay you a tip up front, from $5-$20 depending
on what he wants to see you do. He goes in one door and you go
in another door. There is usually a telephone where you can talk
to the customer. Each show only lasts for about five minutes.
What can you do during a show? That's up to you. Some guys just
want to see your body. Others want to see you dance around.
Others want to see you masturbate or play with a dildo. Others
just want to talk to you on the phone. Of course the more you do
the more you can charge! At the end of the show, usually about 5
minutes, there is a black partition that comes down, which means
the show is over. If he wants to see you again he must tip
again. Some fantasy booths also operate by $1 or $5 tokens.
#6) Bachelor Parties - Before some men get married they
gotta have a bachelor party. You know, a sexy woman jumping out
of a cake! But in real life it don't work that way. Most
bachelor parties are held in a hotel room or at the best man's
apartment. A few are actually held in clubs, where the best man
will rent out the space and hire a few dancers. No matter how
it's done each dancer can get paid about $100-$200 per hour.
Usually 2 or more dancers will work a bachelor party together.
There's a certain amount of safety and security that comes with
2 or more, especially when you're in someone else's apartment or
a hotel room. A lot of guys who have bachelor parties have never
seen an exotic dancer "live" so usually they start off a bit
shy, but by the end of the night their usually very excited.
Most dancers will work a bachelor party for 2 to 4 hours. If the
guys want to videotape it, you can charge them an extra $50 per
hour! It's best to agree to what you will do and get paid before
the actual party. Clients have been known to come up short. And
you can guarantee most of these clients will be a little tipsy
from the Bacardi & Coke, champagne or whatever.
What different types of
dancing are there?
#1) Stage Dancing
- This is when you are on an open stage performing your routine.
There is usually a pole so you can do some additional dance
moves. Customers are normally seated around the entire stage.
The way you want to dance is up to you. Some girls like to
basically walk around and only dance when a customer appears
interested. Other girls will dance very slow and sensual all the
time. Other girls will dance fast and hard while on stage. That
Miami "Shake Your Ass" style is very popular in clubs which
cater to a Black crowd. Normally, you come out and dance for 5
minutes and collect tips from the customers. They may place the
tips in your garter belt, thong, or bra. Or they may just throw
your tips on stage. These are usually $1, $2 or $5 tips.
#2) Lap Dancing - This in when the customer is seated and
you dance in his lap. Meaning you rub your butt on his stuff. In
some states Lap Dancing is illegal. In others states it's legal
but the customer is not allowed to touch you. Of course some
clubs do bend these rules. Lap dances usually last for about 3-5
minutes.
#3) Table Dancing - This is when the customer is seated
and you dance on a small, round, 1 foot tall stool called a
table. Table dances usually last for 1 record or about 5
minutes. Your tip is paid in advance and is $5-$25 depending on
the club or bar.
#4) Private Dancing - This is when you and a customer go
to a private location (within the club) for a Table Dance, Lap
Dance or a Slow Dance. Since it's private and lasts 10-30
minutes, tips are about $20-$200 depending on the club.
#5) Limousine Rides - Of course this is not really a form
of dancing, but it pays top dollar. You will only find this at
the best upscale clubs. The customer pays by the hour for a limo
ride with you. Believe it or not, some of these customers just
want a little conversation with a beautiful woman, and often you
can just sit there and look pretty. Of course he's gonna want to
see some nudity, but remember he can't touch you unless you want
to be touched. The upscale clubs take that rule very seriously.
I've seen guys thrown out by bouncers on their ass because they
touched a dancer. Customers pay for the limo in advance & tips
are about $150+ per hour.
How
do you get paid?
There was a time when very few women performed exotic
dancing, so the clubs would pay you to come in and dance at
their establishment. But things have changed dramatically in the
90's. Some clubs may still pay you $20-$100 to dance for a shift
(plus you keep all tips), however, this is usually reserved for
"Featured Dancers." A Feature Dancer is someone who is so
popular with customers, the club is willing to pay them just for
coming in. In the 90's most Feature Dancers are XXX Adult Video
Stars. Now in a few clubs, you pay the club $5-$20 (known as a
tip out fee) to dance for a shift, and you keep all your tips.
However, in most clubs, you just come in and make money off your
tips. They don't pay you and you don't pay them just to work a
shift. Nude clubs & topless bars usually have either 8 hour
shifts or 12 hour shifts. In most clubs & bars the customer can
buy you a drink. Non-alcoholic or alcoholic depending on the
establishment. This could be a $6 beer or a $50 bottle of Moet.
The club keeps the money from his drink. You get back the money
from your drink or split it 50/50 (or some other percentage)
with the club. When you perform lap dances or table dances you
keep the entire tip for yourself. When you perform a private
dance in a separate room, the club may want to get a percentage
of your money for providing the private area. There are some
clubs & bars which do have "House Girls," meaning you work for
the club exclusively. They pay you to come in and dance, plus
you get to keep your tips.
What about your Appearance
& Wardrobe?
The simple rule is "The better you look the more money you
are going to make." That means your hair should always be in
some type of style, if not invest in a few good wigs.
Fingernails and toenails should be trimmed and painted. Makeup
should be as beautiful as you can make it. Clothing should be as
sexy and exotic as you can get. That means spandex & lycra mini
dresses and pants. Booty cutters or daisy duke type shorts.
Boostier type bras. Lingerie with stockings and garter belts.
G-string bikini swimwear. Clothing made from PVC is definitely
in vogue. High heel shoes are a must. Wardrobe is so important
because customers like to see a variety of outfits in one night.
If you dance in one outfit and come back on stage in the same
outfit 2 hours later, those customers who saw you the first time
will definitely lose interest. Plus having a good wardrobe is a
great way to separate yourself from the dancers that don't.
Where can you buy your
wardrobe?
Most of the sexiest exotic dancer clothing is sold through
mailorder companies. But of course, most of these companies
cater to the shape of White woman. Of course you can find some
great lingerie at your local Victoria's Secret, Frederick's of
Hollywood, or other retail store. There are even a few specialty
shops located in New York City & California that specialize in
exotic dancer wardrobe.
How should you contact
local clubs or bars about dancing?
Clubs are always looking for new dancers. Some may make you
audition first or require that you send them a photo. Some will
tell you to come in and start working whenever you choose
without an audition. Some may even want to formally interview
you, but this is very rare. Just call or visit the club and ask
to speak to the manager. Tell him you want to dance there. He
will tell you what to do from there.
How should you contact out
of state clubs or bars about dancing?
If you want to take what's known as a "working vacation,"
where you visit another city to dance, then you need to make
proper arrangements. First step is to call the club and speak to
the manager. Tell him you're an experienced exotic dancer and
your visiting his city at a certain time, and you want to dance
at his establishment. Most likely, he will be very interested
and will tell you to visit his club or bar when you get in town.
This way he can meet you in person. Now, if you have some
professional photos of yourself, you should tell the manager, so
you can mail them directly to him. This way he can see how you
look, and he may guarantee you can work at his establishment
before he even meets you! I recommend one headshot and three
body shots where you are partially nude in some of your best
outfits. Don't forget a resume. That's right! It shows you are a
professional and a step ahead of the competition.
How do I find these clubs
and bars?
You can find them right here in the clubs section of this
site.
How should I contact Party
Promoters?
Some promoters have a good reputation and have been in
business for several years, others are fly by night operations
looking to make a quick dollar. Sorry, I can't make any
recommendations in this area.
Should you work with a
Booking Agent or an Exotic Dancer Agency?
You could go that route if you choose. It may be a good place
to start for beginners. There are a few good agents out there
who have an extensive knowledge of the business. There are
several Exotic Dancers who run their own agencies too. They can
help book you at Bachelor Parties, help you with your wardrobe,
and get you bookings in clubs and bars. But usually after
several months of experience, most dancers end up booking
themselves once they know where the best nude clubs and topless
bars are located and once they have their wardrobe together. But
it's still a good place to start for some ladies who would
rather be guided by an experienced hand.
How about your Personal
Safety?
While dancing in an established club or topless bar your
safety is pretty much assured while inside. Most places have a
"zero tolerance policy," meaning that if you're having any
problems with a customer, the club will put them out. Now if
you're going to have a problem, most of the time it will occur
when it's time for you go home. Many clubs are located in
isolated areas, or areas that are very quiet at nighttime. If
you have your own car, always let one of the bouncers walk you
to it. If you don't have a car, I suggest you have the phone
numbers to all the local car services in that area. So when
you're ready to leave the club, you can just jump in a cab.
What about Escort
Services?
Escort services can be an interesting way to make money. You
can find hundreds of them listed in the Yellow Pages of most any
major city in the United States. There are 2 kinds of escort
services, Legitimate & Illegal.
#1) Legitimate - In a legal escort service you actually
escort men, usually travelling business men, who are in town and
need a "date" for the evening. The men pay the escort agency
directly, usually on their credit card, and the escort agency
pays you for your time. From my experience there are very few
"Legitimate" escort services.
#2) Illegal - To be blunt, most escort services are just
fronts for prostitution rings. They may cater to traveling
business men, local business men, or just lonely men. They
usually specialize in 1 of 2 types of services, Incall or
Outcall. Let's explain them both:
#1) Incall - You get to provide your "services" in the
safety of a house or apartment. The house or apartment is broken
down into many little rooms where you perform services on your
clients. The "house" provides the bed, condoms, clean towels,
etc. Clients may pay by cash or credit and you usually split the
money with the "house."
#2) Outcall - Instead of working inside, you have to meet
your clients on the outside or at a location of their choosing.
This could be their home, a luxury hotel room, a cheap motel,
you name it. Of course outcall is more dangerous than working
incall, simply because you're not working in a place that is
controlled by you. Your on their turf. However, most escort
services do run or should run background checks all a
prospective clients. Once again you usually split the money with
the "house."
What about Adult Videos?
First of all there are two types of Adult Videos, softcore
and hardcore. Let's explain them both:
#1) Softcore - These videos may have no nudity such as
swimwear videos, partial nudity such as topless dancing, or even
total nudity. These videos are rated R or Mature. For a movie to
be softcore, there can be no sexual acts performed and no
penetration. Companies like Playboy and my company, produce
these types of videos. To see what softcore videos are like just
turn on your TV to the Playboy Channel, because that's the only
type of videos they show. Softcore videos are often sold in
adult video stores and national chain stores like Blockbuster
Video, Circuit City, Tower Records, etc. National chain stores
usually will not sell XXX rated hardcore videos.
#2) Hardcore - These films are X, XX or XXX rated. Some
people call them "Porno Movies." Meaning there is live sex
recorded on video whether between Male & Female, Female &
Female, Male & Male, or Masturbation by using toys (dildos,
vibrators, etc.) These videos are usually sold in adult video
stores, and rented out in mom & pop video stores. And by the
way, there is no difference how many XXX's are listed, all you
really need is one.
How do you get into the
XXX Adult Video Industry?
Breaking into the adult film industry is both easy and
difficult at the same time. It's easy because if you want to do
XXX rated films there are numerous companies, both amateur and
professional, that will shoot a video with you for little or no
pay. That's right, NO PAY! A lot of companies have live sex
auditions, which they videotape, to see if you're really
serious. Of course you have to sign a video release form, which
makes it legal. Most of these companies are located in
California. Now it's also hard because unless you have the right
face, body, and a completely uninhibited attitude, you're not
going make any real money. Some of the top Black female XXX
stars like Janet Jacme, Dominique Simone, Heather Hunter,
Persia, and Champagne may get paid $500-$1000 per video. I know
it doesn't sound like much money, but lets say you make 100
videos per year, and some ladies do just that, we're talking
about $50,000-$100,000. Plus, from the exposure they get from
videos these ladies make additional income when they tour around
the country (dancing at clubs and signing autographs for fans at
Adult Video Stores.) Most ladies just don't have the right look,
attitude and state of mind for XXX videos. And at best may make
about $300 per video. Plus, there's the concern about sexual
transmitted diseases. Most professional adult video companies
require that you take an HIV test every month. But of course
that's no guarantee.
What about posing nude in
Adult Magazines?
Posing nude in a magazine is another area some ladies may
want to get into. The money varies greatly from about $400-$700
for a photo layout in a small magazine such as DeUnique
Magazine, Portfolio Magazine, etc., or to $20,000 if you're
Playboy Centerfold of the month. Of course, Playboy can pay the
big bucks because they sell 4 million copies of their magazine
per month, have their own cable TV channel, and have the #1
selling adult videos in the USA. Most magazines which cater to
the Black or Hispanic Market, sell about 100 thousand copies per
month and have no cable TV channel, so the pay is much lower. If
you contact a magazine they will definitely want to see a photo
of you, probably nude, so you can't be shy. Most magazines have
photographers or photography agencies that they will refer you
to for the actual photo shoot. These people are professionals
and have sets, props, lighting, makeup and everything else
necessary to make you look your best. Wardrobe is usually your
department. Now I know some ladies think "I can let my boyfriend
or someone else I know take some photos of me and the magazine
will publish them." Forget that. Magazines have very high
photographic standards. Plus contracts and photo release forms
have to be signed to make it all legal.
What about posing for
Swimwear Calendars & Posters?
Most companies that produce calendars and posters are
catering to a very specific market. That market is men who want
to have a picture of a beautiful woman in their home or
workplace, but a picture that will not offend your average adult
woman or child. That's why most calendars & posters do not show
any nudity. Posing for a calendar or poster can get you
"positive" exposure in the entire entertainment industry. From
movies, videos, modeling jobs, music videos, etc., without the
possible "negative" exposure you can get from posing nude in
magazines. But the pay scale for most calendars is little or
none. Most compensation will come from the exposure you get or
traveling to an exotic location for a photo shoot.
Got it, Now Go Get It!
As you can see there are various avenues one can go to get
into the field of Exotic Dancing & Adult Entertainment. I hope
this guide gave you ladies some insights. I know this field is
not for everybody, but for those who do choose this field of
work, I'm backing you 100%. |